LGBTQ Therapy NYC

A Safe Space to Be Your True Self

Affirming, Inclusive & Identity-Safe Mental Health Care in New York City

Your identity is valid, your experiences matter, and you deserve a space where you feel seen, heard, and supported. At Become The Way Psychotherapy, we provide affirming, inclusive therapy for LGBTQ+ individuals in New York who are facing challenges related to identity, relationships, mental health, and societal pressures. You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. We’re here for you.
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At Become The Way Psychotherapy, we provide a safe, affirming, and deeply supportive space for LGBTQIA+ individuals seeking healing, clarity, and emotional well-being. Whether you are exploring identity, navigating relationships, processing trauma, or managing anxiety or depression, our LGBTQ therapists in NYC are here to walk beside you with compassion, understanding, and evidence-based care.

We offer both in-person therapy in New York and telehealth sessions across the entire state, so you can get support in the way that feels most comfortable and accessible for you.

Why Choose an LGBTQ Therapist in NYC?

Living authentically in a world that doesn’t always understand or affirm your identity can create emotional challenges. Many LGBTQ+ individuals experience:

  • Identity-based stress or internalized shame
  • Anxiety or depression
  • Family rejection or relationship challenges
  • Discrimination or microaggressions
  • Trauma linked to gender or sexuality
  • Isolation or difficulty finding safe spaces

Working with an LGBTQ-affirming therapist in NYC means you’re partnering with someone who gets it — someone trained to understand the unique experiences, pressures, and strengths within queer and trans communities. Our clinicians provide a judgment-free, compassionate environment where you can explore your emotions, experiences, and identity without fear of discomfort or explanation.

LGBTQ-Affirming Therapy Services We Offer

At Become The Way Psychotherapy, our treatment approach blends warmth with clinical expertise. We support LGBTQIA+ adults, teens, couples, and families across New York City with an affirming, trauma-informed lens.

Our services include:

1 – Individual LGBTQ Therapy

For anxiety, depression, identity exploration, trauma, confidence, life transitions, and emotional resilience.

2 – LGBTQ Couples Counseling

Support for communication, trust, intimacy, conflict resolution, and navigating unique relationship dynamics within queer partnerships.

3 – Gender Identity Exploration

A supportive space for understanding gender identity, expression, and coping with external pressures or fear of rejection.

3 – Family & Relationship Support

Helping families better understand, affirm, and support their LGBTQ+ loved ones.

4 – Trauma-Informed LGBTQ Therapy

Healing from emotional wounds, discrimination, rejection, or experiences related to identity-based trauma.

5 – Support for Coming Out & Transitions

Whether you are considering coming out, navigating a gender transition, or seeking internal clarity, our therapists provide grounded, affirming guidance at each step.

Gender-Affirming Care NYC

We provide gender-affirming mental health support for trans, nonbinary, and gender-expansive individuals.

Our care may include:

  • Exploration of gender identity
  • Support through social, legal, or medical transition
  • Letters for gender-affirming procedures (if applicable)
  • Emotionally preparing for HRT or surgery
  • Managing dysphoria, anxiety, or fear around coming out
  • Building confidence in gender expression
  • Creating safety plans and coping strategies

We are committed to providing culturally sensitive, empowering care rooted in respect and autonomy.

Trans-Affirming Therapists in NYC

Trans and nonbinary clients often face challenges that require specialized, experienced providers. At Become The Way Psychotherapy, our trans-affirming therapists in NYC understand:

  • The emotional impact of dysphoria
  • The fear and exhaustion of being misunderstood
  • Navigating healthcare systems
  • Relationship changes during transition
  • Workplace or social discrimination
  • Safety concerns unique to gender-diverse individuals

We offer a space where you can show up as your full, authentic self without needing to educate your therapist or hide parts of who you are.

Gay Psychotherapist NYC

Many clients specifically prefer to work with a gay psychotherapist in NYC or a therapist who is deeply experienced with gay, bisexual, queer, or questioning individuals.

We support issues such as:

  • Shame, stigma, or internalized homophobia
  • Relationship challenges or open/poly dynamics
  • Dating, boundaries, and hookup culture
  • Intimacy concerns and self-esteem
  • Family relationships and chosen family
  • Substance use and coping mechanisms

Our approach blends humor, empathy, and direct insight allowing you to explore emotional challenges while feeling respected and understood.

What to Expect in LGBTQ Therapy

Therapy is a personalized experience designed around your goals. During sessions, we work on:

  • Identifying emotional patterns
  • Understanding how identity impacts mental health
  • Building healthy coping strategies
  • Strengthening relationships
  • Healing from trauma
  • Building self-acceptance and self-compassion
  • Reducing anxiety and depressive symptoms
  • Developing confidence in your authentic self

You lead the journey we guide with expertise, compassion, and care.

LGBTQ Therapy Across NYC : In-Person & Telehealth

We proudly serve clients across:

  • Manhattan
  • Brooklyn
  • Queens
  • The Bronx
  • Staten Island
  • Long Island
  • Upstate New York
  • All NYC boroughs and ZIP codes (including NY 14609)

Choose in-person therapy in New York or secure telehealth sessions from anywhere in the state.

Evidence-Based Approaches We Use

Our clinicians use proven, research-backed modalities including:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Trauma-Informed Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Approaches
  • Somatic Practices
  • Attachment-Based Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)-informed strategies
  • Culturally Affirming Therapy

We tailor treatment based on your identity, needs, and lived experiences.

Why Clients Choose Become The Way Psychotherapy

  • A safe, inclusive, affirming therapeutic space
  • Deep expertise with LGBTQIA+ identities
  • Flexible telehealth & in-person options
  • Trauma-informed, intersectional care
  • Clinicians who celebrate diversity, not just tolerate it
  • Personalized treatment plans
  • Easy, supportive onboarding process

Here, every part of your identity is welcome.

Start LGBTQ Therapy in NYC TodayYou deserve a therapist who understands you  fully, deeply, authentically. Begin your healing journey today with Become The Way Psychotherapy.

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A Safe, Judgment-Free Space
Be yourself, openly and authentically.
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Compassionate, LGBTQ+-Affirming Support
Your identity is respected and celebrated.
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Tools for Mental Health & Emotional Well-Being
Personalized strategies for your growth.
You don’t have to go through this alone. We’re here to help.

Why Choose Become The Way Psychotherapy?

Experienced Therapists Specializing in Anxiety Treatment
Customized Therapy Plans That Fit Your Needs
A Warm, Supportive, and Judgment-Free Environment

 

Your journey toward a calmer, more peaceful life starts here.

Meet Our LGBTQ Therapist in NYC

Your journey matters. Let’s walk it together.

Raelyn Legg
LMHC
Raelyn Legg
In addition, I'm also highly competent in enhancing positive body image, processing trauma, navigating issues facing the LGBTQIA+ community, and providing gender-affirming care.
Jillian Mittiga
LCSW
Jillian Mittiga
Using solution-focused and CBT approaches, Jillian’s style helps you to make actionable changes in the here and now. Jillian also specializes in perinatal mental health.
Stephanie Kane
LMHC
Stephanie Kane
It's my hope that this leads to a worry-free, non-judgmental atmosphere where you can be yourself.
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LCSW
Jill Childs
Jill has a specialty in helping people struggling with grief and chronic illness. She also has a strong background assisting people struggling with anxiety and depression.
Paige Szarafin, LMSW
LMSW
Paige Szarafin
Experience affirming, evidence-based therapy with a compassionate LGBTQIA+ clinician specializing in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and DBT. Discover healing, self-understanding, and emotional balance through curiosity, compassion, and science-driven care.
Shanita Glover-Mangam
LCSW
Shanita Glover-Mangam
Find healing and balance in life’s transitions with a therapist who understands the weight of navigating change, trauma, and marginalization. This is a safe, affirming space to process pain, build resilience, and move toward wholeness and empowerment.
Denise Molina
LCSW
Denise Molina
Discover compassionate therapy with Denise Molina, LCSW. With 20+ years of experience, Denise uses EMDR, CBT, and evidence-based techniques to help clients overcome trauma, anxiety, and depression. She empowers clients to break free from obstacles, heal, and reconnect with their true selves.